Tuesday, 12 April 2011

Family additions

My life was somewhat turfed upside down last year when my wife arrived on these shores in tandem with her furry, hairy canine friends who had joined her in the immigration to be with me in this country of wealth and opulence. Now don't call me insensitive but at the outset I was rather disturbed at having to share my creature comforts with three small canines, as my previous experience with these vulpine typed animals had been with much larger breeds. I had no idea how they would take to me, or more's the point, how I would cope with them. Well if first experiences were anything to go by I would have thought that I had been dealt a triple whammy by earth's creator as three very small and noisy dogs emerged from the animal reception centre at Heathrow to launch themselves upon my wife and then unceremoniously licked me uncontrollably in the reception centre lounge. Not exactly the most auspicious beginning and I dread to think what would have happened if we were on our way to a Royal garden party with me displaying distinct elements of dog slobber all over my face. Ah from such ignominious beginnings are love affairs borne. I had already mentioned that my experience of small dogs was limited and my perception of them was pesky and somewhat difficult to handle but as the days wore on in a very languid way, my burgeoning affection for these pesky little creatures took on new heights. There was the two boys, same breed but different characters, and the small chipin, with the dainty legs and the porcelain styled body and the stubby tail that just melted a person's heart.The two boys bounded out of the reception centre in a playful mood until they reached the car where they proceeded to have a distinctly unsavoury disagreement which ended in a maelstrom of snarling and biting, and for what reason. It seemed that one of them took a dislike to the other wanting to travel in the front seat instead of him and so their Jekyll and Hyde personalities emerged at that point. One minute they were " mummy's little darlings " and the next, they were the devils incarnate sent to their " father " for correction but I was still reeling from the shock of their arrival and in no fit state to correct any misdemeanour at this time. Things did eventually improve  and we all became close buddies amidst all the fur flying and disgruntled egos that we had to put up with daily. The point of all this, is that at the time, I wasn't sure about their presence or what I had done, allowing them to come here too, but you know now I wouldn't be without any of them especially my wife who I can honestly say is one of the most caring, sweet and good neighbourly people I could ever hope to meet. These dogs are surely a gift from God and they have  taught me a great deal even if they are naughty to the n-th extreme and my love for them has deepened over the time they have been here. They provide us both with happiness, entertainment and humour which enriches and strengthens our lives and relationship. Dogs are such great social stabilisers and they instinctively know when to play up and when to act in a sympathetic way towards you. They are such great socialisers and are able to change a person's mood at the drop of a hat. If you ever get the urge for a challenge in life then give a dog a home. It will make you a better person and make you more aware of your own shortcomings which you can iron out. They never discriminate against anyone or anything and their love for you as a human being is unconditional and without reproach, they can be truly man's best friend if only man would behave appropriately too. We can learn from animals in so many ways so ensure that we take advantage of this in the future to enhance not only our lives but the lives of the followers ie the animals who love us and in some cases would lay their life on the line for us, truly the act of a noble and courageous spirit. I salute them all and give them the highest commendation.

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